Saturday, March 12, 2005
What are friends?
Didnt really sleep very well last night. Heard from my friend that a secondary schoolmate has passed away.. although i dont know him very well, i was really shocked as i talked to him before, seen him in school and he was quite close to another friend of mine...he was really mischeivous and hyper active in school.. but now he is gone.
This made me realize that life is really unpredictable. Friends are important to be around when you are down and out . When you are sad and down, those friends who stayed by your side are those true friends.
This incident made me feel how come there are people out there who can sound like they dont care especially he was quite a close friend to them and had happy times. This incident really made me regret (and know that i'm really wrong), why i missed attending a good friend's father's funeral. I didnt take the initiative to be around for her.. I dont know what to say and console as I never experience such cases before and waited for her to contact us..that was really wrong, i admit. And that was why there was a period our relationship wasnt really good. Luckily for me, slowly, I found a friend in her again.
I will never take things for granted again... and I wont make friends with those people who dont care too.
Okie... later will go for the NUS alumni, will see some old faces again. maybe the teachers as well. Havnt been to NUS since i graduated 4 years ago. Sian ar.. have to travel so far.
Kiyo 到此一游 @ 8:23 AM